{"id":13445,"date":"2022-05-25T11:53:46","date_gmt":"2022-05-25T08:53:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finstockevarsity.com\/resources\/?p=13445"},"modified":"2026-08-11T22:28:16","modified_gmt":"2026-08-11T19:28:16","slug":"how-to-work-with-difficult-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/finstockevarsity.com\/resources\/how-to-work-with-difficult-people\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Work with Difficult People"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Every workplace, classroom, business, or community has them: people who are hard to communicate with, quick to argue, overly critical, uncooperative, or simply challenging to understand. Learning how to work with\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0is not about changing their personalities. It is about managing your own response, communicating clearly, and protecting healthy working relationships.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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In Kenya, where people often work in close teams and rely on cooperation, knowing how to handle challenging personalities can make\u00a0a big difference. Whether you are dealing with a difficult colleague, supervisor, customer, classmate, or team member, the right approach can reduce conflict and help you get things done.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What makes Difficult People difficult to work with?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0can behave in\u00a0different ways. Some may constantly complain, while others refuse to accept feedback or want every decision to go their way. You may also meet people who interrupt conversations, miss deadlines, blame others, gossip, or respond aggressively when challenged.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It is important to remember that difficult\u00a0behaviour\u00a0does not always mean someone is a bad person. Stress, poor communication skills, pressure at work, personal frustrations, or misunderstandings can influence how someone behaves. The goal is therefore not to label people, but to\u00a0recognise\u00a0patterns and respond professionally.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Understanding the difference between someone’s personality and their\u00a0behaviour\u00a0is particularly important. You may not\u00a0get along\u00a0with everyone, but you can still\u00a0maintain\u00a0professional boundaries and cooperate when necessary.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Why is it important to learn how to work with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Avoiding every one of the\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0you meet is rarely realistic. In school, employment, business, and community life, you will meet people with different personalities and expectations. Learning to manage\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0can help you communicate more effectively, prevent unnecessary arguments, and remain productive even when relationships become challenging.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This skill is particularly useful for people working in leadership, customer service, security, administration, education, and other people-centred\u00a0careers. Good interpersonal skills can help you handle disagreements without allowing emotions to take\u00a0control.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

In a Kenyan workplace, for example, employees may work in teams where cooperation is necessary to meet deadlines and serve customers. Knowing how to handle conflict professionally can therefore be just as valuable as technical knowledge.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How can you stay calm when dealing with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your first response matters. When\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0are rude, dismissive, or confrontational, reacting\u00a0immediately\u00a0can make the situation worse.\u00a0Take a moment, listen carefully, and decide what needs to be addressed.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Staying calm does not mean allowing someone to disrespect you. It means choosing a response that supports your goal. Speak in a steady tone, avoid insults, and focus on the issue rather than attacking the person’s character.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For example, instead of saying, \u201cYou are always impossible to work with,\u201d explain the specific problem: \u201cWe agreed that the report would be ready on Friday, and I need an update so we can complete the next step.\u201d<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This approach removes unnecessary personal attacks and keeps the conversation focused on solving the problem.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What communication techniques work best with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Clear communication is one of the strongest tools for handling\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>. Keep your message simple, specific, and respectful. Avoid vague statements that can create more disagreement.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Use \u201cI\u201d statements when\u00a0appropriate. Saying, \u201cI need the information by 3 p.m. so I can finish my part,\u201d is often more productive than saying, \u201cYou never give me information on time.\u201d<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It also helps to ask questions before making assumptions.\u00a0If a colleague seems uncooperative, ask what is preventing them from completing the task.\u00a0Sometimes a problem that looks like an attitude issue is actually a misunderstanding, workload problem, or lack of information.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Active listening is another important technique. Let the other person explain their concern before responding. You do not necessarily have to agree with their position, but listening can help you\u00a0identify\u00a0the real issue.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How can you set boundaries with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Healthy boundaries are essential. You can be respectful without accepting\u00a0behaviour\u00a0that disrupts your work or wellbeing. A boundary might involve refusing to\u00a0participate\u00a0in gossip, asking someone to speak respectfully, or clearly\u00a0stating\u00a0when you are available to discuss an issue.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When setting a boundary, be direct and consistent. Avoid making threats or using aggressive language. For example, you can say, \u201cI am happy to discuss the issue, but I would like us to do so respectfully.\u201d<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0may test boundaries, especially if they are used to getting their way. Consistency helps communicate that your limits are serious.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Boundaries should also be realistic. You cannot control another person’s choices, but you can decide what\u00a0behaviour\u00a0you will engage with and when you will seek\u00a0additional\u00a0support.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How should you deal with Difficult People who are angry?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0are angry, do not automatically match their energy. Listen first and\u00a0identify\u00a0the actual concern. If the complaint is legitimate, acknowledge it and explain what can be done. If\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0make unreasonable demands, remain polite while clearly explaining the limits.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For customer-facing roles, this is especially important. A calm response can prevent a disagreement from becoming a bigger conflict. If the situation becomes threatening or unsafe, follow the\u00a0organisation’s\u00a0procedures and involve the\u00a0appropriate supervisor\u00a0or security personnel rather than trying to handle everything alone.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The key is to separate\u00a0the emotion\u00a0from the issue. Someone can be angry while still raising\u00a0a legitimate\u00a0concern. Deal with\u00a0the concern\u00a0without becoming involved in unnecessary confrontation.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What should you do when Difficult People refuse to cooperate?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Start by making expectations clear. Explain the task, deadline, responsibilities, and consequences of delays where\u00a0appropriate. Put important agreements in writing, especially in a workplace or project setting.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If cooperation still does not improve, document relevant incidents and follow the proper reporting process. Do not respond by sabotaging\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b>,<\/span><\/a>\u00a0spreading\u00a0rumours, or deliberately making their work harder. Those actions usually create a second problem instead of solving the first.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Where possible, focus on measurable facts. Instead of saying that someone is \u201clazy\u201d or \u201cimpossible,\u201d record the missed deadline, incomplete task, unanswered communication, or specific\u00a0behaviour\u00a0that affected the project.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

This makes it easier for a supervisor or manager to understand the situation objectively.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How can you handle Difficult People who constantly\u00a0criticise\u00a0you?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Not every criticism from\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0should be taken personally. Ask yourself whether there is useful information\u00a0in\u00a0what the person is saying. If the feedback is specific and reasonable, use it to improve.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

However, repeated personal attacks are different from constructive criticism. You can calmly redirect the conversation towards facts and work-related issues. If inappropriate\u00a0behaviour\u00a0continues, keep a record and seek guidance from a trusted supervisor, teacher, or relevant authority.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A useful question to ask yourself is: \u201cIs this feedback about my work, or is it an attack on me personally?\u201d That distinction can help you respond without becoming unnecessarily defensive.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How do you deal with a difficult boss or supervisor?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Working with a manager who is among the\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0you may\u00a0encounter\u00a0can be stressful because there may be a power imbalance. Start by understanding their expectations. Ask for priorities, deadlines, and feedback in a professional way.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep records of important instructions and\u00a0completed\u00a0work. This can reduce misunderstandings and give you a clear reference when responsibilities are questioned. If the\u00a0behaviour\u00a0crosses professional boundaries or violates workplace policies, use the\u00a0organisation’s\u00a0formal channels for support rather than confronting the situation recklessly.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Try to keep communication professional even when the relationship is difficult. Emails, meeting notes, task lists, and agreed deadlines can help create clarity.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Can empathy help when dealing with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes. Empathy does not mean agreeing with poor\u00a0behaviour. It means trying to understand what may be influencing someone’s response.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A colleague under intense pressure may communicate poorly. A customer who feels ignored may become impatient. A student who feels embarrassed may react defensively. Understanding the\u00a0possible reason\u00a0behind\u00a0behaviour\u00a0can help you choose a better response.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

At the same time, empathy should not remove accountability. People are still responsible for how they treat others.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When you understand what may be happening beneath the surface, it becomes easier to avoid unnecessary assumptions and respond to\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0with patience while\u00a0maintaining\u00a0appropriate boundaries.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What mistakes should you avoid when dealing with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

One common mistake is trying to win every argument. Not every disagreement needs a winner. Sometimes the best outcome is a practical solution that allows everyone to move forward.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Another mistake is gossiping about the person. Complaining privately may feel\u00a0satisfying\u00a0for a moment, but it can damage trust and create workplace tension. Avoid sending angry messages when emotions are high, making assumptions about motives, or involving unrelated people in a personal disagreement.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Do not ignore serious\u00a0behaviour\u00a0simply because you want to keep\u00a0the peace. If someone repeatedly violates rules, threatens others, discriminates, or creates an unsafe environment, use the\u00a0appropriate reporting\u00a0and support systems.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly, do not become part of the same negative\u00a0behaviour\u00a0you are trying to manage. Responding to\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b>\u00a0with insults, revenge, or gossip can quickly turn one problem into a larger conflict.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

When should you involve a supervisor or another authority?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You should consider getting help when communication has repeatedly failed, the conflict is affecting work or learning, or the\u00a0behaviour\u00a0involves serious misconduct. In a workplace, this may mean speaking to a manager, human resources officer, or designated workplace representative.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The same principle applies\u00a0in\u00a0educational institutions and other\u00a0organisations. You do not have to manage every conflict alone. Asking for help is not\u00a0weakness; it can be a responsible way to protect yourself and others.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If a situation involves threats, harassment, discrimination, or serious misconduct,\u00a0prioritise\u00a0safety and follow the appropriate\u00a0organisational\u00a0procedures rather than\u00a0attempting\u00a0to resolve everything through a personal confrontation.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How can you protect your own wellbeing while dealing with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

You cannot control another person’s\u00a0behaviour, but you can control how you respond. Take\u00a0breaks\u00a0when possible,\u00a0maintain\u00a0healthy routines, and talk to someone you trust when a situation is becoming overwhelming.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Try not to allow one difficult relationship to define your entire experience at work or school. Focus on the parts of your role that you can control,\u00a0maintain\u00a0professional standards, and remind yourself that challenging interactions are part of learning how to work with different personalities.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It is also useful to\u00a0recognise\u00a0when you need support. Constantly dealing with\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0can become exhausting, particularly when the conflict is affecting your concentration, productivity, or relationships with other team members.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What skills can help you become better at handling Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Several skills are valuable: active listening, emotional intelligence, negotiation, conflict resolution, patience, assertive communication, problem-solving, and decision-making. These skills can be developed through experience, training, reading, mentoring, and education.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Courses that focus on human\u00a0behaviour, security, criminology, leadership, and social issues can also give learners a broader understanding of conflict and how people respond to different situations. In Kenya, institutions such as\u00a0<\/span>Finstock Evarsity College<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0offer courses that can support learners interested in developing knowledge and skills for people-focused careers.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For professionals who regularly interact with the public, understanding\u00a0behaviour\u00a0can be particularly useful. It can improve communication, decision-making, conflict management, and professional judgement.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

How can you build a simple strategy for dealing with Difficult People?<\/span><\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A practical five-step approach can make\u00a0difficult situations\u00a0easier to manage:<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Pause:<\/span><\/b>\u00a0Give yourself time to respond rather than react.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    1. Listen:<\/span><\/b>\u00a0Understand the issue before making assumptions.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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      1. Clarify:<\/span><\/b>\u00a0Identify\u00a0the specific\u00a0behaviour\u00a0or problem that needs attention.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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        1. Set boundaries:<\/span><\/b>\u00a0State what is acceptable and what needs to change.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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          1. Escalate when necessary:<\/span><\/b>\u00a0Use the proper support or reporting channels if the issue cannot be resolved directly.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            This approach will not make every conflict disappear, but it can help you remain professional and focused.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

            The goal is not to \u201cdefeat\u201d\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0Instead, the goal is to manage the interaction in a way that protects productivity, respect, and healthy communication.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

            Knowing how to work with\u00a0<\/span>Difficult People<\/span><\/b><\/a>\u00a0is a valuable life and career skill. You will not always choose the people you study with, work with, serve, or lead, but you can choose how you respond to challenging\u00a0behaviour.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

            The most effective approach combines calm communication, clear boundaries, empathy, accountability, and good judgement. Instead of trying to change someone’s personality, focus on managing the situation professionally and finding practical solutions. With practice, even difficult interactions can become\u00a0opportunities\u00a0to strengthen your communication and conflict-resolution skills.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

            If you are interested in understanding people, conflict,\u00a0behaviour, and society more deeply, consider exploring criminology courses at\u00a0<\/span>Finstock Evarsity College<\/span><\/b>.<\/span><\/a>\u00a0Building relevant knowledge and interpersonal skills can help you prepare for a range of people-focused careers and handle challenging situations with greater confidence.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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